Threesome, the sexual fantasy of most men and many women, is also deemed as taboo. Even though, there are still plenty of people who dream for it and try it in real fet life. Threesome is both dangerous and dreamy. That is also one of the reasons that makes it so appealing to people. Just imagine having two naked people go down on you in the same time. You are the king or the queen in the limelight. Everyone wants to be the one that gets all the attention, especially in a sexual activity. Threesome is the way to achieve that.
However, threesome can be dangerous. How? For swinger couples, adding another person into their relationship could cause potential threat to their relationship, especially when you are going to invite your friends to have couple dating with you. The case works the same for swinger singles. You shouldn’t neither have friends over for threesomes. Why? Friendship is different from romantic relationships, but friendship can develop into one, especially when you know each other very well and you are sexually related to each other. People can easily get emotionally attached to one person after you sleep with each other. I heard so many stories of husband or wife cheating on the other with their friends after having a threesome. I am going to tell you one of them to show you why you cannot have friends over for threesomes.
Lily is my close friend. She and her husband were married for three years. Recently, they are trying to spice things up for a little bit by having threesome together. They are both swinging enough to handle that. At least that is what they think of themselves. Instead of finding the third in tinder swingers apps, they decided to invite one of their friend Bob over for threesomes. Bob is the friend and the ex-colleague of Lily. He was the manager of Lily. After he resigned, they have been keeping a connection with each other. Lily’s husband knew him too. It was also Bob who introduced threesomes to them. So they thought inviting Bob over for threesome might be a good idea.
After decided, it still took several weeks until they managed to find one weekend when they were all available. They invited Bob over for dinner. After dinner, they had an amazing threesome. It seems that the story can be ended from there. However, recently, Lily came to me quite miserably. She told me that she had a major crush on Bob. She never felt that before when they were working together. Lily said “He is so good in bed and he was such a nice person. Now, every time I saw him, I want to sleep with him, alone.” Lily knows that is not right, but she just can’t help it. I told her that you shouldn’t invite him to have threesome with you for the starter. It is really hard to be sexually involved with a friend without being emotionally attached to it.